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We must never forget that sex is based on a foundation consisting of a complicated emotional life. Without respecting each other's feelings, lusts and limits; we don't achieve any satisfying sex. This document contains mainly techniques that lovers can use and teach themselves and each others in. This to avoid ridiculing each other, hurting themselves on each other through poorly considered (pornography-brain-washed) pain-exercises. In order to achieve mutually both painless and intense pleasure.
This document has got no ambitions in relating to the emotional life that holds a relationship together. Which actually presupposes a mutually safe and pleasurable sex life. This is very important to remember.
If you have got no spouse, partner, lover, or confidential friend(s) that you care for and may exchange sex with. If you've only got casual sex partners, you may hurt yourself. Not only on copying pornography. But also by doing what is written here. Even if this page is written in a sharp protest against the pornography industry, and its one sided idolizing of macho-tough pain suffering.
in mutual, both painless and pleasurable sex – Goddess-fucking
Those that this guidance can be at best help for, is the following types of people:
You're a boy who define yourself as active, because you dislike the pain entailed by getting your intestines tortured by another's hardon. Or you're a girl who dislike getting raped in the same manner.
You're a boy who define yourself as passive, because you dislike that your hardon don't get enough stimuli in order to keep its erection, nor getting an orgasm, while you rape another passive. So that you experience it to be boring to be active.
You have never experienced an anal- or vaginal orgasm, and would like to learn how to do this.
The way I've taught myself to fuck, is the same way that the old Hellene people of ancient times later has get judged by the Christians to teach their children, and especially their sons to do well. Except that the Christians has suppressed and made secret what this fucking is all about, and has replaced it with their own macho-pornographic pain rape; in order to justify their otherwise rather harsh judgment.
Here you'll also see why it's normal with promiscuity among gays, who through the aid of pornography, learn to hurt themselves upon each others, rather than how more easily enjoy each other mutually. The fucking technique described below, is tailor made for people who live in steady relationships with each other. Who can make the time they need in order to use humor and many exercises to try and err, until they finally succeed. That they in other words never becomes wary of each other in the sexual part of the relationship.
It may therefore seem quite obvious why such fucking is not suited for cruising, on a sauna or to one night stands at each other's homes? This is therefore no heretic invitation to unsafe sex with different partners at every time one has sex, and does therefore neither get in conflict with Norwegian Infection- or Health Laws.
The disadvantage of pornographic fucking in films or photos, is that one here uses the whole hardon to be active, and stab a boy's passive ass or a girl's passive cunt at every thrust, so that one unexpectedly happens to spear their lover's intestines. And then the challenge for the one who let themselves get loved or abused in this manner, to practice themselves into enjoying to explore these rather intense pains.
Or by learning how to abuse so termed «party drugs» that is rather destructive on the immunity defense system of the body, like poppers (amyl nitrite is the most destructive of the lot!), amphetamine, heroin, crack, LSD, or cocaine, in order to dilate the blood vessels in the anus and intestines, and paralyze the nerves in them; so that they don't feel the pain whenever they let themselves get raped, until it feels almost nice. But only while on the drugs. Then you might too easily get hooked on these drugs, and will need them every time you have sex, so that you eventually will end up developing AIDS because of it, perhaps? If you use these types of drugs a lot, you'll loose all patience, and be tiresome to be with. You will only fuck an as long and thick hardon as possible, and never more enjoy any hardon that is normal or less, in order to achieve the only then attractive feeling of pain that the poisonous party drugs create in you. Because your ass hurts equally bad to fuck like that whenever you are sober again!
Here's the instructions on how to achieve mutually painless pleasure without AIDS-creating «party drugs»:
If you're actually more interested in learning how to kiss, please click here.
Whenever you click on a picture, it opens up in a new tab or window in full size. You may have to click on it, to get it in full size. It may also be opened in its own window, and placed beside this text, in order to illustrate it.
These illustrations above, I've made in order to show how male and female by God actually are equally created sexually, and also to help illustrate the text below. I've put it together by scanning in two black'n'white drawings from a medical study book, and a photo of my own hardon, with its functionally foreskin pulled all the way back with my right hand (I can't expose someone else's hardon and risk getting sued for the effort?). All this I've added colour and text, in order to best possible explain the text below. If you menu click on the picture, you can open it up in a new window, to set beside this one, and keep by the text, while reading it.
Intestine stabbing rape fucking entails that your fucking partner automatically opens him- or herself up as much as possible; in order to try to cushion the painful blow that your hardon unexpectedly torture him or her with, so that all the friction that your hardon actually needs, both in order to maintain the erection, and to achieve an orgasm, disappears and leave just boring stabbing seen from the cock's point of view, at the cost of intense pain from the point of view of the owner of the raped ass or cunt.
The way of fucking that the old Hellene people taught their kids, was that the hole (the boy's anus or girl's vagina) is active, and the erected penis is quite passive. Because it is only the boy's ass or the girl's cunt that can feel where the hardon must get steered inside, in order to achieve mutual pleasure! This is easiest done in this manner:
The active ones lies on their back, on for example a bed, with their knees on each side of their head, while he or she masturbates their own penis or clitoris erect, so that the G-spot at the inside-end of the boy's penis or at the inside of the girl's pubic bone, gets activated.
The passive one stands astride on his knees, with his erected pulsating penis pointing upwards. With only the gland and the reverse side of the foreskin, of the naked, lubricated fucked-hardon through the boy's anus or the girl's cunt lips; while he carefully leans the head of his penis with an even force up against the inside-end of the masturbated penis of the boy or the inside of the pubic bone of the girl.
While the active one is masturbating, he or she thrusts his or her body in on the erected fucked penis, so that both the hardons of the boys massages the G-spot of the boy, or the fucked hardon massages the G-spot of the girl.
This entails that the active one automatically pulls all the muscles in his whole anal canal, or her vagina, in on involuntary cramp massage of the gland and the reverse side of the foreskin of the fucked erected penis.
If the passive one then manages to pull the foreskin of his fucked hardon as far back as it goes, all the time they are fucking, the result then is an exchange of mutual intense pleasure.
When the passive one feels that the orgasm is closing, he must let go of the foreskin of his erected penis, grab hold of the hips of the active one with both of his hands, and pull them up, while he lies his whole body down on the body of the active, and runs his erected penis as far inside as it goes.
The active one lets go of his masturbated penis or her clitoris, and grabs hold of the buttocks of the passive guy, and pulls the erected pulsating penis as far inside his ass or her cunt as possible, and keeps it there. Also so that the passive can't thrust, and in this manner unexpectedly torture the intestines of the active one. And lets his hardon pulsate off, until it loses its urge to ejaculate; and it hungers for more massage by the boy's anal canal or the girl's vagina instead.
Then he'll get up on his knees again, push the knees of the active one down on each side of that person's head, while he pulls his fuck-penis out until only the gland and the reverse side of his foreskin resides inside the boy's anus or the girl's cunt-lips. He'll pull his foreskin as far back as it goes, while he lean his body carefully against the inside-end of the masturbated penis of the boy or the pubic bone of the girl. While the active masturbates his penis or her clitoris erect, so that they can continue to exchange the intense mutual pleasure.
This procedure is repeated until the active reaches an orgasm. Then the cramp massage of the muscles in the boy's anal canal or the girl's vagina, will hopefully pull the passive fuck-penis into the orgasm, so that they reach a mutual, simultaneous and powerful orgasm.
Again the passive one lets go of his foreskin, pulls up the hips of the active, and runs his pulsating erected penis inside. While the active grabs hold of his buttocks, and pulls his passive cock all the way inside him- or herself. And keeps it there until it gets limp and slips out by itself.
Here loses – in other words – both the length and the thickness of the fucked hardon it's importance completely! Because it is the muslces of the hole (the boy's anal canal and the girl's vagina) that creates the needed friction. That is why it is easy to fuck even the erect penis of a small boy child in this manner. And the child does not have to get raped at all; like the stupid pornography fantasy demands.
Fucking with G-spot massage is completely in opposition to the pornographic intestine stabbing rape, which only ends in an embarrassing fantasy-inspired – however porn-movie-glorified – ejaculation for the fucking erected penis. This is why one in pornographic movies often has to pull out the fucking erected penis, and masturbate it into ejaculation; because ejaculation is not as easily achieved in this manner of fucking. If not, the fucking hardon will only have to torture the intestines of the fucking partner indefinitely.
Porn rape fucking is also tailor made for using a condom. This is because the condom gets the opportunity to slide freely all the time one fucks in this manner, without any friction. While under fucking with G-spot massage, a condom will wrinkle itself, and will by the cramp massage scratch the skin of the hardon, the intestine or the vagina, so that they start to bleed. In boys this is often the cause of hemorrhoids. Neither plastic- or rubber condoms are as smooth or elastic as the skin on the hardon, in the boy's intestine or the girl's vagina. No matter how much silicone lubricant one uses.
This recipe is only a possible goal that can take many exercises over many months or years to reach. Something which again confirms why sex is best shared with the one you love and care about the most.
While fucking with G-spot massage, it is an advantage if one lets the fucked penis ejaculate first in the beginning. If he is not clever and backs out or does what he must in order to interrupt the fucking, his then rather tender spent erected penis will hurt very badly. So therefore it is important not to be too considerate, or wait until also the active has achieved an orgasm; but discontinue the fucking immediately! If one are two boys who fuck together, it is only to switch who is active and who is passive every time, in order to achieve variation and in order to learn more effectively in order to become a good fuck-partner.
When one copies pornography by spearing the fucking hardon all the way out and all the way in through the non-will-controlled closing muscle in the boy, or the mouth of the uterus in the girl, this entails rather enormous pains. In boys these pains gets amplified when it additionally resides stools inside the non-will-controlled closing muscle that gets pushed up into the kidneys.
But when you only thrust the fucked erected penis all the way in once; and lets it stay there, and pulsate off, until it gets limp and slips out by itself, this only entails intimate pleasure for both parties.
The fucking positions that I have tried and erred my way to prefer for fucking with G-spot massage, is:
That the active lies on his or her back, and masturbates him- or herself with his or her legs in the air, while the passive stands astride on his knees; like I have described it above.
Eventually that the passive lies on his side, crosswise the passive, with his fucked hardon in and up against the active's G-spot, while he pulls his foreskin as far back as it goes.
That the passive lies on his back, while the active stands astride on his or her knees with his or her face facing the fucking partner's face, while he or she masturbates him- or herself, while riding the fucked hardon of the passive by thrusting back and forth; not humping up and down; like pornography messes it up to show us.
It is easiest for the passive to pull his foreskin back in position 1 or 2.
It may be liberating to fuck with one who loves you, and who forgives you for all mistakes. Because then it's only to try again next time.
I should maybe also add that when you fuck with G-spot massage together with another boy, and run your fucked hardon all the way inside while you're ejaculating, the sperm that spurts out of your hardon, will prevent any stools that may reside inside the non-will-controlled closing muscle from clinging to your erected penis.
Then it may also be most comfortable for the then tender fucked erected penis, to reside all the way inside the boy's intestine or the girl's uterus, until it gets limp and slips out by itself. If you pull it out too soon, this may entail rather great pains for the then tender ejaculated or spent hardon.
The illustration above I've made in order to show how male and female by God are equally created sexually, and to illustrate the text below. I've put it together by scanning in two black'n'white drawings from a medical study book, and a photo of my own hardon, with its functionally foreskin pulled all the way back with my hand (I don't see the point in exposing someone else's?). All this I've added colour and text, in order to best possible explain the text below.
The G-spot was named after dr. Gräfenberg.
The «official truth» of Wikipedia disputes the location of the female G-spot.
Now there is this to say about fucking with G-spot massage, that it can only be of interest to boys who have got their foreskin intact, and who neither has got a narrow foreskin. As is described by this text, the size of the fucked hardon loses its importance completely. Then it is only a functioning foreskin that is decisive for if you will succeed with this way of fucking. It may in any case be prudent to go to stool and pee just before one fucks, especially if you're active; in order to give best possible space for the fucked hardon.
Special remark for Jews, Catholics, and Muslims:
If you're a boy, and is encumbered with god fearing parents, who have let themselves get ridiculed, bullied or knocked up into worshipping «not otherwise trustworthy dogmas», in order to remove your foreskin; you are sexually mutilated in relation to this way of fucking. Then you've got insensitive skin – not only on the shaft of your erect penis – but even on the gland and where the reverse side of your foreskin would have been. Then you'll only be liken to a girl, and only suitable to fuck the erected penis of another boy, in order to massage your own G-spot; like it is described above. And in order to masturbate your own penis, you'll have to lubricate – not only your ass – but also your erected penis with a lubricant based on silicone, water or fat. In order to make it easiest possible to produce a mutual orgasm together with another boy who has got his foreskin intact.
Are you a girl, and have got your clitoris removed by equivalently confidence-tricked parents, then you are also mutilated sexually; and in this manner made unable to experience an orgasm. Girls who are circumcised, will have to be patient enough to wait all the way until their next incarnation, if they want to explore fucking with G-spot massage. In the same manner as boys who have been castrated (have got their testicles removed before they entered puberty), and keep their voices in the realm of sopranos and altos.
Boys who are circumcised, however, can explore fucking with G-spot massage with the help of the hardon of a boy who has got his foreskin intact. But not with the help of their own penis; which here only can be used as the girl's clitoris, for masturbation purposes.
Therefore Norwegian sexual politicians, claim to be preoccupied to via their law making with violence to prevent religious parents to mutilate their children sexually. A little strange is it then, that the same politicians simultaneously do not tell anyone about fucking with G-spot massage; but keep on promoting rape like in pornography! (???)
Are you a boy, and have got narrow foreskin – in other words a foreskin that you cannot pull back while your penis is erect, without causing you extreme pain – you can get help from a medical clinic to making four incisions in the string below the gland of your penis, so that your foreskin can get pulled all the way back, while your penis is erect without causing you any pain. Then the foreskin is not removed; liken to the Jews, the Catholics or the Muslims disfigure their children. Then you may on the other hand still keep the sensitivity of your gland and the reverse side of your foreskin. But until you've got this operation done, you are also in the same boat as boys who are circumcised, and has got their foreskin removed as children. Then you can only fuck an erect penis of another boy, if you want to experience mutual orgasms by the help of fucking with G-spot massage.
Fucking in Pornography:
Pornographic intestine stabbing raping with or without a condom – like the manipulated photo-illustrations above shows – anyone can do – even those who has got their sexual organs mutilated as children by religious parents. Rape inspired by pornography is too simple, so this you'll be embarrassed if you're not qualified in from birth. However painful for the one who gets his or hers intestines stabbed, and however boring for the one who stab the intestines with his erected penis, and not particularly satisfactory for one who has experienced, and long for the mutual intense pleasure achieved through fucking with G-spot massage:
Fucking with G-spot massage demands practice with trials and mistakes, with the help of ample patience and lots of humor, in order to learn. Especially when you wish to learn how to create mutual orgasms. This may take as long time to learn to do well, as it takes to learn to ski, to bicycle, to drive a car, to swim, to ride a horse, to sail, to skate, et cetera. Or as easy; depending on which perspective you choose.
Is sex dirty?
Only if it's done right.
DREAM INTERPRETATION Simplified:
concave or -vex,
so whatever you dream
will be something with sex.
The human spirit sublimates
the impulses it thwarts;
a healthy sex life mitigates
the lust for other sports.
Men, said the Devil,
are good to their brothers:
they don’t want to mend their
own ways, but each other's.
Naïve you are
if you believe
life favors those
who aren't naïve.
thou knowest not
is in a sense
THE MIRACLE OF SPRING:
We glibly talk
of nature's laws
but do thing have
a natural cause?
Black earth turned into
PRAYER to the sun above the clouds:
Sun that givest all things birth,
shine on everything on earth!
If that's too much to demand,
shine at least on this our land.
If even that's too much for thee,
shine at any rate on me.
The road to wisdom? —Well, it's plain,
and simple to express:
Err and err, and err again,
but less and less, and less!
grooks by Kumbel (Piet HEIN 1906—1995)
Den som kun tar spøg som spøg,
og alvor kun alvorligt,
han og hun har fagtisk fattet
begge dele dårligt.
gruk av Kumbel (Piet HEIN 1905—1996)